Prayers needed in Georgia...Please

[RenegadeSS]

Please look at www.stevesnovasite.com/forums/showthread.php?t=81240
The guy Racer X is ME!
Please pray for me.I'm hanging in there by a thread.Don't know how much more I can handle y'all.

[qkjuicedpony]

Dude f you need ANYTHING.give me a call.

pm sent

[HorsePowerChic]

Kind of a long story....but I'll try to make it quick.

When I was teaching Kindergarten.....
It was almost the end of the day....one of the little boys was in absolute tears. Being a mom myself I was concerned. I wanted to give him a hug and make whatever it was better. He kept saying that he wanted his mommy. I tried to tell him that it was ok and that she'd be there soon to get him. After a few min's he said....but you don't understand....my mommy's in heaven and I miss her. I did my very best to comfort him....but my heart was broke. I had to leave the classroom to cry for a while.
That little boys pain has saved my life more than once. I went through a divorce...my boys stayed with my ex husband. I still see them every other weekend and through holidays. But for a mom....it was devistating. I had been with their dad since I was 16. Then of course I lost my dad...I was very much a daddy's girl.

Point being...
I know how bad I hurt now since my dad left....and I felt the pain of that little boy that day. I have 3 little ones of my own. I've been through hell and back on more than one occasion. I love my babies more than anything in this world. I would never ever want them to hurt like that little boy hurt. When things get bad....I can still hear him say..."but I want my mommy". (ewww..chills)

It's our job to keep it together no matter what the circumstances...it's what parents do. It hurts...and I cry a lot....but no matter what......I have to stick it out....there's 3 little folks that are counting on me.

You have to do the same.

Prayers and lots of love sent!!!!

[vortech_95-gt]

I don't know you but I consider you my friend , And unlike a lot of people I DO KNOW YOUR PAIN. I went through a divorce almost 2 years ago...I can actually give you right down to the exact time (hours and minutes) since the evening she said she wanted out , after 9 years of marriage and i didn't want the divorce , never in a million years I loved her so much...she was my heart simply put......she was unfaithful and still I didn't want the divorce , she meant everything in the world to me.....she was my world and it became even more obvious after she left because my entire world crumbled. I didn't think it was humanly possible to love someone as much as I did / do her , but I am living proof just as you are. With that being said FRIENDS make life possible , I had some of the same thoughts as you , I lost 40 lbs in about 1 month (hell of a diet) I was grieving and I wouldn't eat I became a recluse I got so weak that I would be standing at home and just pass out and finally wake up disoriented.....but friends are the key , I owe my life to my true friends ....Tireman , Mach1Girl , Coupe performance and family , HPC , Lucky and a few others that sat on the phone with me and just listened for hours on end , and that is what got me through. They say divorce is actually worse than the death of a spouse because there is solid closure and I believe it. I want to offer a bit of advice and that is Talk with friends as much as possible....(TRUE FRIENDS) that really care for you and love you , Believe it or not , things will get better , they really will , people kept telling me that and I just couldn't see it but its true , keep communications open Please. I know we don't know one another but I will Pm you my # ....Ive been there and I know the feelings so feel free to call me if you wish...I really hope the divorce doesnt happen , its never the right answer in my opinion , there are no winners , it just may seem that way for a while but its short lived , I hope things turn around for you guys and your childs sake , Do your best to stay strong and dont let pride get in the way of leaning on your friends as I tried to do for a while, I have actually had a very rough life since I was a very young child....things I wouldnt wish upon anyone (things that only a few know about or ever will) but I made it and you can to and you will be a stronger man for it I promise
My prayers to you and best wishes
Chris

[Bugman]

Please look at www.stevesnovasite.com/forums/showthread.php?t=81240
The guy Racer X is ME!
Please pray for me.I'm hanging in there by a thread.Don't know how much more I can handle y'all.

Hey you goofy bastid how about I-Hop Friday AM? I don't need anything from Summit but we can always find a reason to go and you may just be the best reason yet. :)

Sorry we haven't talked more since all this happened but damn I just don't know what to say and I hate hearing you upset. Forgive me?

We Love ya man!

[Bugman]

I don't know you but I consider you my friend , And unlike a lot of people I DO KNOW YOUR PAIN.
My prayers to you and best wishes
Chris

He is the one with the straight header tubbed out Black 80's model Malibu that Scott Dyno'd last year. Not sure if you were there that day or not but I am sure that Scott will remember.

Tim is a great guy with the worst of luck!

[Todd93LX]

Prayers sent. I myself went threw a terrible divorce that I did'nt want but life will get better for you. please understand that your son WANT understand if you leave him that way. my son's name is Tyler as well. I dont live far from you if you need somebody to talk to and I dont mind. if you need anything feel free to give me a shout. I wish the best for you bud. god bless you and your family.

[NaughtygirlIROC]

I can only wish the best for you. People have already said some good stuff here but I too went through a very nasty divorce where I thought for sure I would need to end my own life and there were many times I think back and realize I could have died many times. I can PROMISE you, it will pass. There IS more to live for and you will have your son in your life. I am proof there is life after an ugly un-expected divorce. If you can get to a divorce clinic- DO IT...it saved my life. I know you think nobody can help or maybe everyone can help but really- each person that's been through something like this can offer support. Friends are very important during a time like this. SURROUND yourself with friends or keep yourself busy no matter how badly you want to curl up into a ball and disappear. You will come out a stronger happier person in the long run. Nothing makes sense now, I know.... but STAY STRONG!!!

[Plowboy72]

I'm praying for you my friend! If I can get up those ramps at Bugmans place you can get through this. Sorry trying to help you smile.

[RenegadeSS]

Hey you goofy bastid how about I-Hop Friday AM? I don't need anything from Summit but we can always find a reason to go and you may just be the best reason yet. :)

Sorry we haven't talked more since all this happened but damn I just don't know what to say and I hate hearing you upset. Forgive me?

We Love ya man!

Heck Yeah,I hop with my Bro and the family,I would like that very much !! You want to just meet up at Summit or what? Everything is gonna work out.I got served with divorce papers on Tues evening but thank God I had already talked to some People.Read my last post on page 3 at stevesnovasite.

"Was it over when the Germans bombed pearl Harbor" Hell NO and it ain't over now!! Thanks John Belushi

Brian,Chris,Bugman,Todd,Robin,Tammy and Alan----Thank You Sooooooo much and I love you all!

[RenegadeSS]

I forgot to thank Alex also,so,Thank you Alex,very Much.I'm ok now and ready to do whatever I have to do.It hurts but I'll be ok. I'll be strong for my son.Hopefully one day I'll be able to smile again.

[Todd93LX]

I forgot to thank Alex also,so,Thank you Alex,very Much.I'm ok now and ready to do whatever I have to do.It hurts but I'll be ok. I'll be strong for my son.Hopefully one day I'll be able to smile again.
You will my friend, let me share this with you..............................................t his was my second chance in life. she saved me brother.........I SWEAR SHE DID. I thought I would never love again.

[Todd93LX]

Look what she blessed me with on 12-16-07 Life throws you lemons....................................make lemonade brother. this is my baby girl Karlee.

[copperdodge]

Just take it all one day at a time. Meet with the minister a few more times if that's what it takes. Once you talk to the lawyer, a lot of things will be much more clear.... you mentioned counseling on the nova site. Even if you can't get your wife to come with you, DEFINITELY sign yourself up and GO.

[RenegadeSS]

Hey Bro,your wife and your new baby girl are beautiful! Congratulations.My son called me this afternoon,we talked for about 3 hours.It seems that my wife tore the page off of my desktop calendar and hid the phone book that had my number in it.He got my # from the Nova website.It was great to finally hear his voice.He says that no matter what happens,he is going to tell the judge that he wants to live with me!! That means I should get the house AND child support from her.Wouldn't that be cool?!

Hey Alex,I have enrolled myself in Anger Management Classes AND I am going to stay in Church.See what happens when you pray and you have lots of good people praying for you.Awesome! Tyler and I will be like peas and carrots again Real soon.I'm going to talk to a $$ lawyer at 4pm tomorrow.Please everybody,keep praying for us.
Thank you all !

[HorsePowerChic]

Hey Bro,your wife and your new baby girl are beautiful! Congratulations.My son called me this afternoon,we talked for about 3 hours.It seems that my wife tore the page off of my desktop calendar and hid the phone book that had my number in it.He got my # from the Nova website.It was great to finally hear his voice.He says that no matter what happens,he is going to tell the judge that he wants to live with me!! That means I should get the house AND child support from her.Wouldn't that be cool?!

Hey Alex,I have enrolled myself in Anger Management Classes AND I am going to stay in Church.See what happens when you pray and you have lots of good people praying for you.Awesome! Tyler and I will be like peas and carrots again Real soon.I'm going to talk to a $$ lawyer at 4pm tomorrow.Please everybody,keep praying for us.
Thank you all !


Well see there...

Don't ever give up to soon...you never know what might be around the corner :D

Best wishes!!!

[copperdodge]

You bet hoss.... let us know what happens.

[RenegadeSS]

Thanks All,I WILL keep you posted.